I’ve got curly hair, I’ve had it all my life, it’s just part of who I am and with age I have learnt to love it. But I can still recall the feeling of dread that used to come over me at the thought of having my hair cut.
For the majority of women a visit to the hairdressers is a treat, not for me, the very thought of it turned my knees to jelly as over the years my haircuts got progressively worse.
The main ‘problem’ was how strong the curl was, so although my hair appeared long when wet, it shrunk remarkably when dry!
Actually the ‘problem’ was that ‘they’ didn’t listen, what would I know about hair? They were the experts, and as such knew what they were doing!!
I do wished they would have listened it would have saved a lot of grief, but needless to say I’ve had some extremely short fringes and weird and wonderful haircuts.
Luckily social media was unheard of then!
It took me a long time to find someone who actually took the time to listen to me and consider my needs and my lifestyle, someone who realised that when it came to my hair I’m the expert.
Once I found ‘my hairdresser’ she had a customer for life, I shall never leave her, as I now know the delights of leaving the hairdressers without rushing home to redo it or worse still buy a hat!
I have never forgot that feeling, of having to put up and shut up, with someone who promised me the world and didn’t deliver.
Sometimes in life we find ourselves searching for people who are experts in their field, as for one reason or another we need their help.
Wouldn’t it be nice to feel sure you’re going to be listened to, maybe for the first time ever, no more sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach because you felt obliged to say thank you for something you really didn’t want.
I can help you with that. Using a combination of Hypnotherapy, NLP, EFT and Mindfulness I am able to help you on many levels. Perhaps you have something holding you back from achieving a goal or you think ” If only I could do that!” but you never do?
If any of this calls out to you, please contact me on 07939499151 or www.theholistichubforwomen.com and I’ll explain how things can be quickly changed for the better.